Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Respect.

I don't feel that Tim respects me.

Am I being paranoid?  Am I reading him wrong?

We clash, with differing opinions.  I am okay with that.  But he doesn't seem to care much about my opinion, and doesn't seem interested in even searching for a compromise in action.  We have different views, and, as I see it, he considers that his view is right, and my view is wrong.

Maybe this is me seeing it all wrong.

Maybe it's a problem with me - I know that I get contray and absolute when someone tries to tell I am meritlessly wrong.  Perhaps I am not seeking compromise to as full and extent as I could.

Or maybe it's a question of the situation - he makes decisions unquestioningly, and acts on them, as I see it.  I think of possible courses of action, try to gather information, build a concensus on a good action, and then implement it.  Not a matter of respect, just the fact that his style acts before mine is ready at all, and is in the middle of action by the time I say anything.

But the same question applies as always:  What do I do?

What to do, what to do...

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